All I can say about myself is most of the time I'm completely lost, I love listening to other people's beautiful poems but I can never write my own. I get extremely emotional I can't hide it. My suicidal thoughts have been horrible in the past two three years. I hate talking on the phone with strangers but my mom doesn't seem to understand that. My home life isn't bad, i just hate being home i wish i could be out of here now. The only time i get some peace is when I'm outside with my boyfriend or just near him in general. I'm starting to really get attached to him and it terrifies me. My love of art has been disappearing i just can't anymore. I have a past like we all do, I think of mine a lot. I cry way to many silent tears. I try to be okay on my bad days, just some days I can't smile.
Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever been a stripper?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever been to a strip club.
Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever done porn?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever watched porn.
You’re the reason we exist.
You’re the demand to our supply.
If you disdain sex workers, don’t you dare consume our labor.
As they say in the industry, “People jack off with the left hand and point with the right.”
it ok to not be ready
Please spread this shit like wildfire. People go on and sit through the whole experience and they’re uncomfortable because they just want to please their partner and they don’t tell them that they want to stop because they are not ready. It’s okay not to be ready.
notice here that consent is revoked without ever saying no and consent goes so far beyond yes/no!!!!!!
I would just like to say fuck you to everyone who made me feel inadequate growing up and ruining my self esteem for years. You all suck and I’m glad I don’t talk to any of you any more.
the one thing that has stuck with me every day since my English teacher told me it in middle school is:
"When referring to someone, always say who they are before anything else about them, because being a person always comes first"
Instead of saying “the mentally ill man,” say “the man with a mental illness”
Putting someone’s characteristics (especially negative ones) before them is dehumanizing and rude. Don’t do it.